Asking empowering questions . . .

When we ask ourselves questions like “What can I do now to make this better?” or “What can I do now to make myself feel better?” or “What am I grateful for right now?”, it fills our mind with positive answers and makes us feel better and take positive action.  
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However, when we ask questions like “Why did this happen to me?” or “Why am I such a loser” we not only feel worse but we set ourselves up as a victim.  This leads us to take negative action or no action at all.